mr right (where are u)

i was basically doing nothing today.
and so i put the tv on and there was this documentary about single people in the world.
and how they are trying to find true love.


there was this woman from china that said something that hit me like a brick.
she said '' what is wrong with me , that i cannot find mr right''
i was thinkin the same thing...WTF !! is wrong with me man.
im not picky neither was the woman in china ,
ok maybe women can be a little picky when i comes to love.
and who we want as partner.
am i picky mmm maybe to others i am , but personely i do not think so.
but all i want is a man that is himself..real.. a man that is honest..a man that is a little macho a man that is A MAN not a metrosexual NOOOOO.
theres nothing wrong with metrosexuals but i do not like men that are that vain.
i want a man that is a MAN.
and in the words of the song of missy elliot I DO NOT WANT A ONE MINUTE MAN..LOL


ok maybe i do have little list lmao.
but i guess we all do.
but is the list we make the reason that there are lots of singles in the world,
or is the reason that some people take it to far and really take their list so serious that they say '' no no i want a blond with green eyes ''
is that the reason???
maybe it is.......cause maybe we are all caught up in the list making in our minds that we make it our goal to find the person we created in our fantasy.
and do not deny that you do not have a list of do's and don't cause most of us do.
cause when u walk the street and you see someone that has something you want.
you kinda feel the attraction to that person that has that certain thing you want.


but does that certain thing automatically mean that the attractions  is mutual and if its real.
i do not know.. but i do know that sometimes its good to look outside the box.
so think outside the box is that a sure thing that can make you find mr right or miss right.


mm maybe 
they always say opposites attract so i guess , 
thinking outside the box is sometimes a good thing.
and let go of some ideals and see if you can find mr or miss right.


oyeah that does not mean that you must get the 1st person you can get.
cause attraction and love to matter. DUH..
and there is nothing wrong with having standards.
but the high standards are not realistic.
but normal standards are ok to have.
everyone has them.




im single and loving it.
but i wanna know where mr right is .
and not mr right now.
or mr nutcase..
mr right where the f"#$%ck are you .


oh wait im throwing away my list maybe i will see him LMFAO






peace
love


nadia