THE WEIGHT ISSUE

there has been alot said about weight loss and gane,
for the people who have weight problems,
today i spoke to someone who seems to think that for (sorry for the word) fat people are gonna be more happy if they lost the weight,
on some degree i agree but here is where i got stuck,
i know someone personaly who is a big woman, and she had a ruff past .
with abuse in it, and she has post traumatic stress disorder.
and she has to get help to get over it and learn how to cope.
and they keep sayin to her lose weight it will make u feel beter,
yes i want her to be healthy and fit, and feeling good,
but the fact is that like other addictions she will or can have a relapse,
if she loses the weight now, im my opinion she needs to get healthy in her head first, cause if she is depressed of her past losing weight wont help.
if she losses the weight in this state depressed , and she does not get right help,
she will relapse and eat all of that old weight back, and that is not only waste of time but not good for her health, and her mental state,

but this woman i spoke to said also to women who have Anorexia nervosa they should get healthy and gane some weight again,
i agree, but again the same here,
if you ignore the mental state she or he will not make it,
someone with Anorexia nervosa wants to be thin, and never has the feeling they are, and they are scared to get fat.
and yes it is not healthy living that way neither,
but i honestly think that they should take the time and explore the mental state,
of why they are in this position in the first place,
instead of telling them what they should do,
addiction sometimes comes from things in the past or thing we have been tru,
and you turn to something ,
for some it may be drugs or alcohol, or just not eating tryna stay thin ( Anorexia nervosa) or eating ,
ive seen how it effects people, treatment is good, help is good,
but realize that they mental state is inportant to ,
cause that is the one they need to survive ,
cause if they dont want to , they will get beter att all,
but in this talk i had with this woman i realized,
why do we as people have such a issue with weight???!

p.s
threatment(help) is good!
love urself